Narcissism is getting a lot of media attention lately. But mostly related to intimate partner dynamics.
My specialty is working with adult children of narcissistic mothers. While I cannot diagnose someone with narcissism who is not my client, I help my client focus on how they perceive their experiences.
There are many common experiences adult children of narcissists report. Here are just 7 of them:
- Your mother acts jealous of and competitive with you.
- Your mother often reacts to news by talking about how it will affect her rather than asking how it affects you.
- Rather than take responsibility for her feelings or actions, she often blames you.
- Your mother often acts like the world does or should revolve around her.
- You have repeatedly felt unloved, criticized, manipulated, unaccepted, and/or rejected by your mother.
- Your mother is controlling and acts like a victim or martyr.
- Your mother often acts differently (i.e. phony) around others.
If you experienced any of the above, it could mean you were raised by a mother with narcissistic traits. And it is possible to heal from the effects of your childhood.
If you are looking for support in your recovery, feel free to book a consult with me to discuss how individual or group therapy might help.
